I have A LOT to say about whatever is going on. First, I would like to re-iterate that whatever attention they are getting is of their own doing. I did not start this online because I want nothing to do with these horrific people. I am the forever traumatized ex-wife of a narcissistic, gaslighting, habitual liar, and cheater of a husband named Matthew Flavell. I’m saying that because I am about the truth and only the truth. I have had so many people reach out to me and my children over their sudden rise to popularity in the Philippines somehow and the mystery about where they are getting all this money. This has been going on a lot longer than I have been aware of it. I do not visit their social media accounts because everything they do and everything they say disgusts me. However, my children do, and the people who knew my ex-husband for the piece of shit he truly is do and they love to run to me and tell me things as if I want to hear about it. I never do and I stop them in their paths.
This latest blurb the other day came directly from the Philippines and I will never mention who came forward because they are scared for their family. Is that how bad it’s gotten with these two? Watch this blog over then next few days. I’m going to provide everyone the proof they need and because it’s public. My whole life is documented on video and in photography because well, I’m a mom, and it’s my career so naturally I have tons of shit on YouTube from our marriage that he did to me and my family. This is for my daughter because right now she is feeling empowered because she’s been a victim of them (much worse than myself) because finally, the WORLD is seeing them for who they are and they will not get away with it. These are dirty, filthy, dishonest scumbags and everyone needs to know why, and to know why is to protect any children from them. There is a history of sexual and physical abuse. This woman kidnapped my children from me, brainwashed them, attempted to give them stupid-ass 1930s era old white people names. They taught them to call me by my first name. She posted videos online that mentally fucked me and my daughters up. She literally made people think somehow my four very WHITE kids were actually hers. They kept them hidden from me for years, violated court orders, and used alimony and child support payments as a ransom note. Everything was, “Give up getting alimony and child support, and then we will happily give the kids back.” They both tried to get protection orders against me, Roselou for cyberstalking when nothing happened except she stole my kids. My ex-husband tried to say I hit him with a car, and that did not happen either. They did it the day they got married and felt like they had to get this protection order to be able to run away with my children. Because that would be perfect, if I couldn’t get to him or her, I could never get my kids. It was always about money and money only. My ex-husband Matthew Flavell when I married him, is the not the same person. His whole human and brain changed when they married and she manipulated and brainwashed him. The stupidest quote and mistake he made, and this goes to show he is brainwashed because he thought it was OK to say to a judge was after the judge asked him why he hadn’t paid his alimony or honored his marital settlement agreement and he replied, “Well, I got married and I found someone who talked some sense into me and I don’t have to pay it.”. Lake County Courts in Florida. He was immediately slapped with a contempt of court and fined $8,000.00 that he did not pay for 8 years.
Let me go settle down here and eat something because I have a lot of writing to do. I’ll probably even make a video on TikTok and YouTube. As I said… watch this space.
Here is Caitlyn’s video telling the world her story:
AND NOW WE HAVE THEIR ASSHOLE FATHER MAKING A REPLY VIDEO TO CAITLYN THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE ACCUSATIONS (AS IF YOU COULD DEFEND IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!) – BTW THIS IS THE MANIPULATION BY DISTRACTION… if you can’t defend it, start talking about yourself and blame others about other things that have nothing to do with it:
Oh god, looking at his narcissistic cover image even makes me want to vomit. So he replies to Caitlyn’s video, with a video accusing me of all sorts of stuff. So this post is going to get real long. Everything he has to say is so easy to disprove because I have videos of everything. This is his typical tactic… it’s manipulation by distraction. The same thing Donald Trump does to get people to ignore the real story. He goes on about he was beat?? That asshole was arrested twice for domestic violence because when I found out he was cheating on me and I had his laptop he took it and hit me over the head. He was arrested because there was audio of him doing it. It was 2014 at the time and it was easier for me to audio record on a whim. I will provide that audio. He was arrested then a week later for the same thing. That is the extent of violence in our household. My next upload will be his plot and plan to destroy my life and make me disappear and replace me with some whore he never ended up meeting in real life. They got engaged online and photoshopped themselves next to each other. He forgets he gave them away in 2016 and only wanted to take them back when he met this woman and he wanted to use being a “dad” as an impressive to a woman, so his plan was to use the kids to go look at sea turtles in Jenson Beach so he could meet up with a woman. I told him hell no. He will not use my kids. But that is what he did for Roselou too, except he kidnapped them and took them 100 miles away and got a bogus restraining order so I couldn’t get them back and I had to fight it in the courts.
He also has the nerve to say I brainwashed them to make them unruly and against Roselou. I’d love to ask him when I was ever around my kids when he was with Roselou to even have that opportunity because last I checked, and Caitlyn will admit to it, and I have the worst videos to show it, is that she was trained to hate me and say she wasn’t my family and this was when she manipulated their elementary school administrators that I was a bad parent somehow and even tried to prevent me and Jason from picking them up without fear of being trespassed or arrested when I had a court order. She posted videos online of manipulation so sick it angered the whole east coast of this country literally. If I’m correct he also tried to say my 7 year old and 5 year old at the time were not potty trained. They were potty trained by 2 years old, but you know what, he had nothing to do with them so how would he know. It’s not like he participated in their lives. I was mom and dad, and he paid the bills. I was their defender when they were wronged and I was their disciplinarian. I have so many videos of this coward not standing up for his kids when things happened to them. Ok, so videos coming soon I just got to find them. So if you can tolerate this narcissist and hearing his new style of manipulating talking points, by all means watch this crap. I wouldn’t post it if I thought I couldn’t defend it.
So in one of his reply videos, probably this one… he says, “I did not kidnap them, she was incarcerated and you can only be with one parent” yada yada. First of all, I was thrown away over my sons incident that I fought for years over. This incident never happened and the proof is below somewhere and he was on my side the whole entire time knowing it didn’t happen because my son fessed up to him that it didn’t. But back to what he said. He kidnapped them from me in 2017 and that didn’t happen til later on in 2020… and on September 7th, 2017 he ghosted me, moved out of his apartment, took my kids 100 miles away, obtained a bogus restraining order for the sole purpose of keeping me away so that Roselou could groom my kids to be her own and abuse them for years. I fought like hell in the courts and I have all the records. He is a fucking liar of epic proportions. Everyone knows the timeline and what he did to me. My current husband has been around since 2018 and knows that he held these kids and it was essentially a ransom note. I was always given conditions to when they’d return my kids and it was always about when I’d drop our marital court case and alimony and child support. My court case only just ended after his rights were terminated.
He also speaks of it being his choice? No it was never his choice. It was my choice or they were going to involuntarily take them from him. He did not choose anything. His behavior, his co-abusing of the children, his neglect, and the fact that he chose to support his wife over his own four really good children is why the state did not want him in their lives anymore. But this was the solution he had been looking for since at least 2011. He was looking for a way out. He chose to never show up at any family court hearings where one would go if they actually wanted a chance at getting their kids back. He didn’t show up once. He abandoned them. I spent years fighting for them and when they landed back with me the judge finally said they are right where they should have always been and never left. They managed to manipulate the court systems so long, but a judge that saw through it knew he was full of shit and a loser.
Matthew Flavell is a straight up motherfucking loser who should get hit by a car. In my eyes, and my kids eyes he is dead. No threat intended but, he needs to go be the bad pilot he always has been and crash a fucking cessna into the Pacific along with his wife. Yes, I said that. What I have witnessed over the last 12 hours is nothing but a pathetic little man going on his narcissistic YouTube Channel “The Sweethearts” and come at me which has absolutely nothing to do or any ability to justify this asshole’s behavior. How many people knew he gave up his children before today? Probably nobody except those I told. I’m sure his family must have wondered, though they are pretty fucked up selfish on their own level never wanting anything to do with the kids either. He has never once acknowledged his own kids in all his fakery with these self-serving ridiculous videos he posts or when they both post a gross video. The best he did once was say he did what he had to do, and said it quite happily. I wanted to ram my first through the computer when I saw him fake cry over Caitlyn’s tumor. That son of a bitch didn’t care when that happened. All they cared about was using the situation to promote their TikTok channel as Caitlyn would tel you. It got them needed attention. A reason to post a video. Sympathy. When we almost lost my Ava to SIDS at 17 months old, around the time he started messing around online, all he cared about was not being with her in the intensive care unit. I had to force him to go to the hospital .
I have gone out of my way to ignore that his heart still beats. But dear Jesus god, as even her family calls him, he’s just a fucked up little weird dude that walks with a gimpy arm that sticks out to balance his large head while walking. Not a lie. I haven’t torn into him in years, and you know what, he deserves it today for even challenging his own blood about what is true and even daring to come on YouTube and posting a video without even defending the accusations leveled against him by others. I was only made aware of what was happening online about 4 days ago. It’s all of his own doing. If he didn’t want attention on the real truth of what his life is and what his pigtard wife truly is, they shouldn’t be faking their lives for attention.
They are both criminally immoral people. Matt, well, he was always agnostic but magically she came into the picture and he believes in a god? NO. Everyone in the USA knows he’s cheated on her. Everyone in the USA knows she beats the hell out of him. I still haven’t looked at his dumb ass YouTube channel, because I can’t really stand looking at his bloated snaggle toothed face. He looks creepy because he is a creepy motherfucker. Anyone who even touches my site can see I put myself out there. I don’t give 2 fat fucks who knows what about my life. I don’t hide anything. I love talking about my life, I am an open book.
So he gets on his video tonight and starts coming at me apparently about what happened with my son Chris in 2016. I have written about that injustice for years. An accusation was leveled at me by a pissed off teenager that I punched him in the face. Fact of the matter is, there were 3 other witnesses that said it didn’t happen. Because it didn’t happen. I don’t want to recall that painful night, but he abandoned us by not signing his half of the lease on our house and made us homeless for 3 months. We were in a 12×12 hotel room with a 5 member family and a dog. Tensions were high. I begged him to be a father and give me a break for a couple day so I can go out and secure housing and a new job. He had not taken the kids in months. In this situation he put us in, he refused too. He said maybe he’d come in a week. Maybe. I had just survived life support which is rare when your body shuts down from Sepsis. I was out of the hospital 3 hours before I was ordered to pick up 4 kids and go find some place to stay. I was still on anti-virals. I couldn’t drive but I was forced to drive 100 miles to pick them up. I didn’t know what to do. Do you know how I ended up with sepsis? Two weeks prior I had taken my kids home to Michigan in hopes to find another house to get away from him. I had no luck. Chris got mad at me one night in a motel room over his own stress caused by the situation because I told him to please turn the volume down on the TV. He refused. He was always a kid that had an attitude problem and a violence problem. Anyone can tell you that and I will show you that at the end of this post. So anyway, I yelled at him. He didn’t do what I asked late at night so his sisters and brother could sleep in the cramped room. So I got over his face and grabbed the remote. He reared back and double kicked me in the head and chest as hard as he could. I had to be taken to the hospital with blunt force head and chest wall injuries. The kids had to go with my brother and I was in the hospital. They had to catheter me in the hospital and did not do it right and what was then Oakwood Southshore hospital infected my bladder with bacteria. It wasn’t but days later I fell so ill that we had to rush home to Florida by car. I drove it straight through but I knew something was massively wrong. I never even made it all the way home. I made it to Kissimmee at a resort motel because that was the quickest place I could suffer at. We checked in. I remember getting very agitated. I remember telling my children that I was ill. I remember driving to walgreens hoping I had enough money for Tylenol. That’s it. I just needed Tylenol. That would surely help. Chris was with me, he knew something was wrong. We got back to the hotel and I immediately ran to the bed. Within hours a 107 degree fever set in. Delusion set in. All I kept saying was to Ava who was always by my side was, “sing for me”. I loved her singing. I kept asking her to sing but she wouldn’t. All the kids ignored me. They all fought over a computer. I vaguely remember having a text pad open in Windows typing what I knew were my last words. Nobody cared but I knew notepad would be left open for when someone found me and opened my computer.
When I ultimately survived and opened my laptop I was shocked at what I wrote:
*this is causing severe ptsd recalling*
Anyway, tears aside. The last thing I remember was blaring ambulance sirens and a radio in for a sepsis alert. I had no clue what that was. I just knew i’d never wake up again.
Ok. I need a few minutes to compose myself and I’ll get to the rest and the point of this whole post.
*I had to step away from my blog for 20 minutes and go outside to play with refining chemicals and wished I could throw them on him* but I still don’t feel better. I’m having to relive a horrific memory to explain what happened. If only that little pussy had a something so devastating that mattered to him that changed his soul. Yeah, I lived through this twice more over the next two years, I hope I don’t get into that. I do have the perfect video I will share that sums him up when it comes to devastating. My mom was dying and this little fuck 1 week before she dies gets in an argument with me, I yell at him and tel him I want to go home, and he tells my dying mom and I to walk back to Michigan and threw himself on the floor in a tantrum. Yeah, you’ll see that Matthew Flavell right here, this is who he is to do that to my mom knowing she was dying and would be in hospice in days:
Anyway, this is the Philippines beloved man baby. This is the immature buffoon that as you can tell is clearly not a stand-up man. He is a coward as much today as he was then.
Ok I need to finish this post but i’m struggling at getting back on topic. I’ll get there in a few.
OK back. Now that I think about it and how I can’t finish things like writing, here is the matching unfinished video to this section of this story about it. Step by step, heart to heart, …. we all fall down.
It’s 4:13a.m. in the morning and i’m still up pondering how to keep going here. I found a never before heard audio of him and I talking after I caught him cheating where I remained calm and he was doing everything in his power to buy me off. Basically every accusation he has made about me wanting his money this conversation exonerates me. Any accusation I abused him, this exonerates me. Any accusation that I ever did anything wrong, this conversation exonerates me because he would have said something about our relationship during this conversation. I’m working on transcribing it and putting titles to it so it can be seen and read. So for anybody who saw today’s bullshit videos from him, you will be able to tell he has huge psychological problems and his demeanor is not that of anyone capable of being a decent human being. I’ll post that right here shortly.
Oh, before I post the video of the audio and photos of his lies, these next two copies of his text messages, among 475 pages, he damn well knows i’d never hit my kids and was on my side and testified in court on my behalf. So he’s lying about the whole Chris incident in 2016. Again Roselou brainwashed him late in the game to stop supporting me for some reason. He testified in court that I have never laid a hand on my kids ever, and everyone I know knows that. Here is just a snippet of texts before that bitch entered his life. Thankfully he’s on court record for the defense so it’s pretty easy to prove he’s trying to make me look bad knowing that I was innocent. I fought my case for so long because I was innocent. However, that filthy little man was known for some awful beatings of my boys. He never liked the boys. He admitted to it on audio as well. I have text messages of Andrew telling me that “dada smashed our heads together” and i’ve seen him do it before and I have fought with him over how he does too much or absolutely nothing at all.
AND for everyone’s psychiatric PLEASURE. Here is the proof that everything he says about me is a lie. I stole his money? No, he begged me and had me calculate the amount of money and support we got in the divorce. I beat him? No, he went to jail twice. If I beat him he would have said so in this video. For what he had just done, he should have been fucked up, but I remain quite calm considering the facts when I’m having this hour long conversation with someone in complete narcissistic psychosis.
